Episode 117: Manifestation Breakthroughs with Bianca Lysette

Unlocking Manifestation and Wellness with Bianca Lysette

In episode 117 of 'Wellness in Every Season,' host Autumn Carter invites manifestation coach Bianca Lysette to discuss the principles and techniques of manifestation. Bianca delves into her journey, from starting a virtual assistant business to hitting rock bottom, and subsequently discovering the power of manifestation through 'The Secret.' She explains the differences between the law of attraction and manifestation, and how she employs a personalized approach to help clients achieve their dreams by removing subconscious blocks. The episode also explores the significance of manifestation in overall wellness, including physical health and happiness. Bianca shares success stories of her clients, emphasizing the transformative power of customizing manifestation techniques to fit individual needs. Autumn and Bianca also touch on the importance of being present and setting daily expectations to create a happier, more balanced life. The episode concludes with announcements for resources and ways to connect with Autumn for personal coaching.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome
01:01 Bianca's Journey to Manifestation
04:04 Understanding Manifestation and Coaching Techniques
06:30 Personalized Manifestation Approach
11:10 Manifestation and Wellness
15:55 Happiness and Manifestation
26:49 Success Stories and Final Thoughts

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Episode 117: Manifestation Breakthroughs with Bianca Lysette

Introduction and Guest Welcome

Autumn Carter: This is episode 117. 

Welcome to Wellness in Every Season, the podcast where we explore the rich tapestry of wellness in all of its forms. I'm your host Autumn Carter, a certified life coach turned wellness coach, as well as a certified parenting coach dedicated to empowering others to rediscover their identity in their current season of life.

My goal is to help you thrive both as an individual and as a parent.

Autumn Carter: Welcome! Today I have with me Bianca Lysette. She is going to be talking to us about manifestation, and this is something that I've been diving into, so I'm really excited to explore this further. She is a manifestation coach.

She specializes in helping people remove subconscious blocks and use custom manifestation techniques to create their dream life five times faster. 

Welcome. I'm so glad you're here. Can you tell us a little bit more about what you do and tell us about your journey to it? Where you are. I'm sure there's a story there usually is. 

Bianca's Journey to Manifestation

Bianca Lysette: Yeah, absolutely. Thank you so much for having me today. So the way that I actually first got introduced to manifestation was at a certain point in my life.

As soon as I was able to start working, I knew that I wanted to be an entrepreneur. So I dove right in and I figured out the skills that I had and what I could create with that. I started a virtual executive assistant business and I had no business training, no background, no idea what I was doing.

But In the beginning, it was very successful. I was making money. I had my VAs, I had my clients, and then. Like anything it came to a crashing stop. I lost everything I lost all of my employees all of my clients all of my revenue I was literally back to like negative 50 in my account and I moved back in with my aunt I was staying in her guest room and I was just at such a low point in my life completely unmotivated and just out of steam.

And my cousin came over and she's like, I really think you should watch the documentary called The Secret. I think maybe it'll put some oomph back in your step. And I was like, well, that sounds stupid, but I have nothing else to do. So why not? And I'm not sure if you're familiar with this documentary, but it is, I watched it last week.

It's good. It had me hooked. After I watched it, I was like, I'm going to figure this out. If they're telling me that I can become a millionaire. By changing my thoughts and changing my habits and patterns. Like it sounds so easy. Like I have to figure it out. So I spent the next couple of years really diving in.

I actually got a coach. I went to seminars. I watched every other documentary, every YouTube video there was about the law of attraction and manifestation. And I got to a point where I had started another business, which was my coaching business and became very successful very fast. And it helped me create this proven method that can help people understand who they are at a soul level and how they can create their version of success or wealth or whether it's career success, how they can create that tailored to themselves.

Autumn Carter: That's amazing. So I heard about the show because I am reading the success principles. He's actually interviewed in the show. It's really good. I'm yeah, I still have a long ways to go. He's good, but he mentioned it several times and I started diving into his world through podcasts and he kept mentioning it.

So like, okay, I'm going to find where it is and start watching it. And it's on YouTube with lots of commercials if you have the free YouTube. So it's. Really good, really well done, very 90s. But the things that they're talking about are not time bound. 

Bianca Lysette: Oh yeah, it's stuff like that. I mean, even, you know, going back, Neville Goddard, like, what is that, maybe like the 60s?

All of his teachings are still very accurate today, and if things that you can apply today, that still makes sense. 

Autumn Carter: you went from, you had a VA business, then you hit rock bottom and you started learning about the secret and then you started applying it.

Understanding Manifestation and Coaching Techniques

Autumn Carter: How do you now help coach other people? With the law of attraction and manifestation and what is the difference between the two? 

Bianca Lysette: Yeah, absolutely so the way that I coach people is that Manifestation is not a one size fits all When I was going through this process, I was like, this is BS because nothing's working.

And the reason nothing was working is because I was not finding the methods and the style and the approach that was built around my brain chemistry, who I am as a person, who I am at a soul level. So it was a lot of trial and error. And that was something that I was seeing with a lot of other people.

So I focus on creating this. More personalized, tailored approach that's not only built around your brain chemistry, your psychology and your personality, but also your energy, right? Because energy is a real thing. So I have a process to analyze that and see, what way works best for you? What is the best learning way that resonates with your energy and your brain chemistry?

And to go back the difference between the law of attraction and manifestation, I want to say It's somewhat the same, but with the law of attraction, it is a law of the universe. It's somewhat a part of manifestation, but it's more what you attract. Like attracts like. So whatever you're resonating with, whatever level you're vibrating at, that's what you're going to get.

Whether that's in your health, your career, in your relationship, you know, attracting a soulmate, it's going to be someone who's on that vibrational level is the best way I can explain it. With manifestation, you're on more of the creation side. You're manifesting, you're creating, you are trying to create something you've never had before or something you have had, it's that process of climbing up the hill and making something happen.

Autumn Carter: That makes sense. So, do you want to try any of that on me to make it real world or do you want to continue with through the outline? I will edit this part out, don't worry. 

Bianca Lysette: Yeah, yeah, yeah. I could, it just, it depends. The process is a little lengthy because I have, what I do is like a 50 50 step questionnaire to kind of go through your history what are you trying to create, what hasn't worked for you.

You know, it's, it's a lengthy process, but I can kind of go over like my three step formula. 

Autumn Carter: Okay. I see what she does, like the little, you know, Ben and Jerry's here, right? Yeah. Asking Robbins, whatever. 

Bianca Lysette: Okay. 

Personalized Manifestation Approach

Bianca Lysette: So the three step formula that I use that gives it that personalized touch is really.

The first step is understanding your brain chemistry and your psychology. So I actually, in the process of going through this, I ended up speaking with a lot of neuroscientists because I was not a believer. I really wanted to see the proof in the pudding and speaking with them, I've come to realize that a lot of them, they didn't want to call it manifestation, right?

But they absolutely believed in there's a certain way to trick the subconscious mind into being able to create whatever your goal is. A. K. A. Manifestation. So After speaking with them, I was able to find out what questions need to be asked in order to understand what is in your subconscious mind, right?

Because the subconscious mind is what affects 90 percent of your reality, no matter what it is when it comes to, your health, relationships, money, you know, you're only able to create what your subconscious mind believes is possible. So I ask you these specific psychological questions to really get inside your mind and see what your traumas are, what your history is, what you believe is possible, what have you gone through, what has worked for you, what hasn't worked for you, all of the above.

And then once we figure all that out, I create a program that's going to take you like another two weeks to go through to just pretty much reprogram the subconscious mind in terms of changing your thoughts to align more with what you're currently trying to create. So for example, if you're having thoughts of money doesn't grow on trees, the rich get richer and the poor get poor, right?

ultimately you want to be a millionaire. Those thoughts are what's going to be holding you back, whether you know it or not. So we have to get in there and reprogram those thoughts, replace them with different, more empowering thoughts that will stick and come up when. times are getting hard.

So I do that by incorporating EFT, pattern interrupters, recorded hypnosis, et cetera, again, depending on what you need personally. So once we get through that first phase of reprogramming the subconscious mind, then the next four weeks is where we do custom manifestations. 

So my job is to come in here and see what methods can I create that are going to work for you and get you excited to do manifesting.

You know, so that way it doesn't feel like a chore and it really resonates deeply at your core. So we spend the next four weeks doing that. After you complete that cycle at the end, that's where the practical things come in, right? Because manifestation, although it is 80% of the work, right? Because there's that 80 20 rule.

The 20 percent absolutely matters because if you're not taking action to get to your goals, it's kind of just going back to, you know, manifestation is woo woo because people are thinking they have to sit around and think positive thoughts all day and things are just going to flow to them easily. And while that is true, to an extent, you have to take the steps needed to put it together.

So I help you create an action plan. That gets you to your goal in a certain amount of time doing a certain amount of steps, you know We get very specific and granular and this is where people start to really see results. 

that is why I actually incorporate something after we get through the psychological phase called a synchronicity tracker.

So the synchronicity tracker is there to help maintain your faith and manifestation and help you notice all the little blessings that the universe is sending you along the way. So you will absolutely start to see results from the moment you decide to shift your thoughts. 

Like I tell my clients to play the show me game, right? So it's like. If I am on the right track or I am getting closer to becoming a millionaire, whatever it is, show me four butterflies tomorrow or show me, you know, a dog running across the street, something along that nature, right? and when they see these things, it feels so magical.

They're like, wow, I am really doing something crazy here. Like this is unexplainable. So they have that synchronicity tracker to go back and refer to it, to show them all the little steps that they're taking. You're getting signs, you're getting messages, right? I've had some clients go from only making 3k a month to 10k in the first three weeks of working with me.

And I've had others that they don't see any specific movement or sign I should say, until we get closer to the end and they're doing the action steps and then things start rolling. You know, it's all about your perception, how easy you're willing to notice these things, and how quickly you can change your thoughts and fully believe.

That's really what it comes down to. So it is different for everybody, but The signs and the synchronicities will always be there when you start making the changes. 

Autumn Carter: That makes sense to me. Okay. 

Manifestation and Wellness

Autumn Carter: So how does this relate to wellness?

Of course, financial money, but it feels like it can definitely relate to overall wellness. So what can you speak on for that? 

Bianca Lysette: Yes, and this one's fun for me becauseI have actually had a autoimmune condition for quite a while now and with the power of manifestation and of course, talk to your doctor, I have been able to I don't want to say cure, but I've been able to heal myself in ways that you would not believe.

I use homeopathic medicine and everything, but I really do believe it is because the way that I'm able to control my thoughts and feelings around my condition. And I've worked with some clients that have seen miraculous results. I had a client who was in remission from breast cancer and it came back as brain cancer and it was stage 3 and they were telling her there's not much they can do.

It's already in the end phases and she was able to put herself in remission from that brain cancer, of course, taking other necessary steps with her own choice of medications. But again, your brain is so powerful when it comes to your health. You can control what is going on in your body as long as you find that balance and that power of belief.

So I really think, especially when it comes to wellness, that manifestation would be an incredible tool. 

Autumn Carter: I mean, have you ever been around a child and you're like, your spirit is so much bigger than your little body? 

Bianca Lysette: Or 

Autumn Carter: even people, but I think as we become adults, we tend to suppress it.

So we don't really see it as bigger than us, but it is. And when we take inspired action, it helps that spirit side of us grow. And We receive the inspiration to do these things, and I think she was also receiving that. I wonder if visualization is in this at all. 

Bianca Lysette: Oh, of course. Absolutely. I mean, I think that's a really big part whatever phase you're in in manifestation, but I think it goes back to what you're saying, more like her spirit, her higher self, you know, something, and everybody has their name for it, whether it's the universe, God, your higher self, you know, something external from you that's able to give you the downloads and these weird feelings that this is what you need to do to see the results you want to see, even speaking with her and asking her, like, how did she do this?

And she's like, I just had a knowing. I just knew. And I was like, that's great. You know, it's unexplainable, but it definitely comes from somewhere. 

Autumn Carter: Well, and I think that we can do it in small ways. Like this morning, things were not going my way this morning. I missed my yoga chance, because the bus was late and it was getting the kids out the door to the bus and then turn around, do yoga before I take the little one to preschool.

And all of this happened. Finally get the salt off my car because it's right in between snowstorms and everything and I even said it to the preschool teacher I bet you the car wash is closed like just my luck today. Oh, no, like I made that happen, you know I'm just like when I showed up and it wasn't like I had that feeling as soon as I left my mouth that I did It to myself Like fine.

I'll go to a different one tomorrow But I was like, wow, I totally had that as I pulled and I'm like, I did that. 

Bianca Lysette: That was it. Yeah, it does. It happens. it's momentum. So and that's actually something else I always encourage people to do first thing in the morning to set the expectation of your day, like before I'm even awake, like my eyes are closed.

I still have my sleep mask on. I'm like, today is going to be a great day. Amazing things are coming my way, you know, set the expectation before you get up and you stub your toe and you're like, you know what, this is not it. 

Autumn Carter: And I still felt even though this morning was frazzling, I didn't feel frazzled on the surface, but not the deep because I did meditation up there and I did a new one that was on visualization.

So I'm like, okay, at least it's like surface level once the kids are gone, it will be very easy to flip that switch and be like, okay, feel calm and peaceful again. Especially because I only get everyone out of the house two days a week. Because the little one's still in preschool. 

Even, yes, the huge level. Brain cancer. Yes. But, there's all the little Things along the way that lead up to that, which is totally what your program, what you're talking about is how are we going to get these big things that we're striving for that we truly desire that are good for us. If we can't do the small things.

Happiness and Manifestation

Autumn Carter: Okay, so tell me about how this works with happiness, because we are very much in a society where we are striving for happiness, but it feels like this just out of reach thing, and we are willing to get rid of everything, kind of that piggy bank, turn it upside down and empty everything out, and turn everything topsy turvy, trying to find happiness, and Sometimes we are so driven for that, that we steamroll others along the way.

So, I'm asking a lot here, I know this. But, what is your version of happiness, and how does this look in a holistic, mindfulness, manifestation approach? Yeah, and I love how you explain that, right? We're all like chasing happiness, right? It's gotten to a point that society has pretty much programmed us that happiness is something that is outside of you, right?

Bianca Lysette: Happiness only comes when you are doing the things required to be happy. Whether that's achieving your goals, finding your soulmate, or whatever it is, right? From my understanding and also like I mentioned before I've spoken with a lot of neuroscientists and Happiness is quite literally a chemical in your brain So if you are able to be in the present moment and you can do that by meditation You can do that by tapping you can do that by breath work simple very simple things Be in the present moment, even if you're not feeling it, right?

Close your eyes, and I want you to smile. And I want you to smile for 17 seconds. It takes 17 seconds for you to create positive momentum and to get yourself in a happy state. I don't care if you've been crying for three hours. I don't care if you are depressed out of your mind. If you do some type of breathwork, close your eyes and sit and smile and think of some image in your head that gives you a good feeling.

You will be in a state of happiness, and it's literally doing that at least once a day that can help you start to realize, you are literally programming your subconscious mind that you are happy no matter what. You are convincing yourself of that.

And at first it will feel silly, it will feel stupid. You'll be like, this is not working, I don't know why I'm doing this. But do it every day for a week, and it'll change your life. You're gonna create a new chemical in your brain to be addicted to instead of being Addicted to stress and addicted to sadness and anxiety, 

Autumn Carter: I love that and I wonder if it's kind of like love When you think of love in the English language is love one word means that it stands for all the different types of love Where if you look at it in other languages, especially Latin based, that's about all I know but there are several different types of love and Maybe happiness should be thought of the same way where there are different types of happiness in there.

And so many of us are looking for that euphoric happiness and wanting to stay there when that sense of euphoria doesn't last very long. So we're striving for that. And I really like your version of happiness because it invokes feelings of peace. And I really love when I feel grounded. Every meditation practice I do mindfulness practice on my podcast when I do my solo episodes has grounding and breath worked because those are my two, like tried and true always works things.

And for me, that's more the happiness that I strive for as a mom. Because it's a lot more fleeting. The kids tend to steal it, it feels like. And it's like, okay, just breathe. Take a minute before I answer them for the 50th time for the same question. So that type of thing. So I really like that idea. And then there's one that's been resonating with me for the past several years.

the pursuit of a goal brings happiness. It's not actually achieving that goal because once you achieve that, you're like, okay, what's next? But the pursuit of it can bring you happiness and the joy and the stretching and the growing.

And yes, it's kind of that mixed ball because it's not just happiness because stretching and growing isn't always fun. But I love that. The pursuit of it can bring you happiness and you should find happiness along the way.

Otherwise you're just achieving, achieving, achieving, going, going, going. And then when you finish this thing called life, what have you achieved? And what you really should be striving to achieve is the happiness that you can share with others is my own soapbox opinion. 

Bianca Lysette: Yeah. I just try to express unconditional happiness, right? And that's something that you usually find. Like you said, when you're going through the journey, you're not only falling in love with what you're doing, but you're falling in love with yourself, right? And that makes you happy. You're like, wow, look what I'm accomplishing.

I'm still pushing. I've been through X, Y, and Z, and I'm still on my way. And you know, that's the little things, that give you that euphoric happiness. 

Autumn Carter: And I think it keeps you from judging others. 

So kids can listen because I hate when I'm listening to podcasts that I really love and some F bombs come in and I'm like, Oh, children ignore that. But anyway, There's just so much to be said about when you are truly happy and you're working on your own stuff that it's easier to spread the happiness.

That is what I've found through my own life, through seeing others, coaching others, but even just experiencing being with others. And those are the people that are the attractors. They're attracting you because you want to be better. They're the ones that are giving you, kind of like, if you think of a candle, you know, they're lighting the other candle and then you can share it with others, but they're giving you that light and they're showing you that.

It's possible and you don't have to shield it and not share it with other people because I don't know about you But as I've been working on myself when I'm around people who are negative It drains me faster, and I'm more like I'm gonna go this way now I'm gonna avoid you unless I'm in a coaching capacity.

Of course. I'll work with you, but if it's like in a personal I have my kids with me. Unless we're complaining to find the solution, which I feel like that is separate. So, I love the ideas of happiness and how it goes with manifesting and how when we are working on our dreams and really digging deep into what is our deep, deep desire dream, not our surface level, we think we should be doing because other people are doing type of thing, and it sounds like you were saying that your questionnaire when you start it.

It is 50 questions long, and it sounds like it's to really get into, like, what is the bottom of this iceberg that we can really dig into. So what are some of the sample questions that would be on your questionnaire? 

Bianca Lysette: Yeah, so I go all the way back, right? Because when we are alive from the ages of birth to eight, we are at our most susceptible to be programmed with our parents beliefs our environment, you know, that's usually when we're exposed to all the crazy things of the world and it affects us the most.

And that's where a lot of people pick up their trauma that sticks with them until they're. Much in their adult years all the way to 30 and 40 and so on until they find me So I go back and ask you questions about your childhood. I ask you questions about your parents What are they like your guardians, whatever that is See what you remember right because sometimes the subconscious mind will suppress things to protect us but I really want to be able to pull that out because there is always some type of belief from, either early childhood or early adulthood that is affecting what you want.

So going back and being able to target that and seeing how we can shift it into something that's more favorable is really one of the most beneficial parts of that process. 

Autumn Carter: And it made me think about when I was in therapy a couple years ago that we got to a point where it was like my All of me wants to shut down because if it, I'm worried that it's going to become this Pandora's box, discovering some of the abuse that was in my past and that there's no putting that back in.

Bianca Lysette: Yeah, that's 

Autumn Carter: what most people say. Yeah, we hit that plateau for a couple months and it's like, okay, I think I'm ready to like poke it, like, but just from the sides. I don't want that top to come out all the way off. And that totally makes sense. And there's people who I've talked to and coached who are well.

So, it makes sense that you're wanting to go back. What is that subconscious thing? What is that thing that you keep, every time you get there, you have to dance around it? And okay, well that's just going to be an obstacle, so I'll just work on this over here type of thing.

So I love that you are really helping them to put in the work to dig forward. 

Bianca Lysette: Yeah, and it's it can be challenging a lot of people like you said are like I don't want to go there I don't want to know what's in there. Let's leave it locked. It's fine I'm like if you want to be a millionaire you're gonna have to break through that But that's why I call the phase the discomfort zone, right?

my job is to really get you to take it head on and Be ready for whatever discomfort and changes you're going to have to push through because in the end it's 100 percent worth it. 

Autumn Carter: You're really wanting somebody who is ready to be done with their BS and really overcome the things that they've already been trying to do on their own.

Bianca Lysette: Yeah, I mean, you don't have to be ready though. Most people come to me because they just want to manifest things and then they find out like, oh, wow, this is serious. But, you know, they hate me for like the first two weeks. But in the end, they're like, okay, that was amazing. Because now these great things are coming into my life.

Autumn Carter: They go from hating you to referring you. 

Bianca Lysette: Yeah, it happens, but you know, it's uncomfortable. It's crazy. It's insane. It's unexplainable. But when you get through it, that is why I have the success and the reviews that I have because my work is like something you've never experienced.

Autumn Carter: That's fun to be able to say. 

Bianca Lysette: Yeah, it is. It's fun to watch. 

Autumn Carter: That is one thing that I love about coaching and one thing that is a total bonus that I appreciate. I get healed while I'm helping them. I'll take it, but that's not why I'm doing it. A win win for everybody.

It really is. 

Success Stories and Final Thoughts

Autumn Carter: So what is another story, success story that you'd love to share? 

Bianca Lysette: Yeah, so this one is more on the relationship side, but I just worked with a woman who is a small business owner in Miami. She does real estate investment and she was actually looking to find her soulmate.

She's a little bit older and she had actually never been in a serious relationship She said she's had like a boyfriend or two, but nothing to where she's ever told anybody she loved them or anything. And of course, like anybody in manifestation, she felt like she was on a time crunch.

She came to me and she's like, I need this to happen in the next couple of months, or I'm just determined to be single forever. And that's not how manifestation works. You know, the universe works in divine timing. Whenever it is time for you to receive something, you will, and you can't ever control that.

You can't force that with manifestation. So we went through the process and we were about. three weeks into her doing her custom manifestations, and she had gotten to a point where she's like, I am just so in love with myself. She's like, I've always been okay with who I am. She's like, but now I feel a true resonance, as if I am in a relationship with myself.

And it's great. I'm falling in love. I'm just enjoying every minute. And there was this glow about her at this point. Like there was just this natural glow and it wasn't like she was giving up on finding a relationship. It was more along the lines of she was open to receiving whatever's meant for her.

And if it comes, it comes. And if it doesn't, it doesn't, that's fine. But she continued to do the work. And I didn't hear from her, because we usually have weekly one on ones. I didn't hear from her a little over a week. So I reached out and I was like, is everything okay? And she's like, yeah, I got in a car accident.

But the guy that hit me was the most handsome man I've ever seen. She's like, it wasn't anything serious. But he asked me on a date. And she's like, this is absolutely amazing. And I was like, oh, I was so excited. I was like, I hope this is the one for you. But I told her, don't stop doing the work.

Continue to do the work. You know, you're on this high vibrational plane. You're in the vortex, just keep it going. And by the time we got to the end of her action plan, she was engaged. And I'm a hopeless romantic. So seeing this happen, like before my eyes, it was just so inspiring.

It's one of my biggest success stories right now. And I just can't express it enough how the universe works in strange ways. 

Autumn Carter: Well, you're glowing just talking about it. Oh, here's my question. she has the blueprint from this. Is she able to take that and apply it to other parts in her life pretty easily? Or is that something where if it's deeper, she'll need to come back to you for? How does this work? 

Bianca Lysette: Yes, that's a great question. So the way that I structure it is it's pretty much giving you the toolbox to create anything you want in your life.

Once you have the strategies and the tools, you can shift very little things to create other things. So let's say for example, she was working on love. She got her soulmate. Now she wants to go back to working on her business. It's going to be the same framework. So it's something that's very versatile and something you can use for just about anything.

Autumn Carter: I have clients that do come back just because they like how I hold them accountable and the handholding, you know, it's, it's always better when someone's like, you need to do your work.

Bianca Lysette: Right. But you know, again, it's, it's something where you learn it and you have those tools. It's like riding a bike. You will never forget it. 

Autumn Carter: Well, one of my clients today was telling me, I need you to set a deadline for me. She has ADHD. She's like, my ADHD brain needs a deadline. 

Bianca Lysette: Yeah. 

Autumn Carter: Okay. So this. Okay.

But I need a punishment if I don't do that. I'm like, okay, fine. You owe me this. And she's like, okay. I accept. Like, there was that. Yep. This will work. Moment. Like, click. 

Bianca Lysette: I mean, I love it myself. I love being held accountable. So it really just comes down to the person. 

Autumn Carter: I'm really good at holding myself accountable, so it was really interesting for her to be like, I need it to be this.

I need it to be more like this. Okay, how's this? Yep, I accept. That's great. Yeah, I love it. Is there anything else that you want to leave us with as we end tonight? 

Bianca Lysette: I just want to remind everybody that you can only create what you believe is possible. So shift your beliefs and you can change your whole life.

Autumn Carter: Mic drop. That was perfect. Thank you so much for being on and thank you to your listeners. If you know of anybody who is struggling with the same thing over and over again, and they can't seem to get past it. Or they have this big dream that they keep putting on hold. Bianca is the person for you, so please reach out.

All of her contact information will be in the show notes, so don't worry, 

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